When you hear your lady say she’s too tired to make love, you need to understand that, more often than not, what she’s saying is:

* I have given all I’ve got to everyone else and have nothing else to give.
* I need time for myself.
* I want someone to hold me.
* I want someone to talk to me.
* I want someone to be my “nurse” for a while.
* I need someone to care about “me” for a change.
* I want someone to make me feel better

Now that you understand what she’s saying, you have a couple of choices. You pick the result you want from the following decisions and carry out the instructions:

Result #1: 0% chance of S E X for the next several weeks

Tell her you despise the day you married her and that if there weren’t kids involved, you would dump her in a minute. Then, ignore her while making it clear you are extremely mad at her for not putting out.

Result #2: 10% chance of S E X tonight

Turn on your “best behavior” and tell her you to love her and understand how she feels. Ask her if you can get her a cup of a hot tea or something. Then ask her if she would like for you to rub her feet.

The real point is that you are too late. You didn’t take responsibility for ensuring she was turned on and ready by bedtime.

That’s right! As a man, you are the one who needs to take responsibility for turning your lady on so that she is ready for you.

Unfortunately, you may well be too late to change anything for tonight.

But the good news is that tomorrow is a new day. Tomorrow, you can cause things to be different.

What are you going to do to turn your wife on? What needs to happen so that you get a different response besides “I’m too tired” from her?

When you come up with the answers, you must implement them!